EXTERNAL CONSIDERING

“EXTERNAL CONSIDERING" I have taken it

as a phrase for so long but actually became 

so excited to see it really happening in real 

present time! 

I am remembering something that happened 

the other day with someone in life and 

it was a lovely photograph. As I opened 

to this person that was complaining bitterly 

about a few things, my personality became 

invisible, and a sense of BEING, my truer self, 

surrounded me like an invisible circle and 

then I felt it go towards that person and 

include them in it.

It really felt as if just this gift of presence 

was releasing them and freeing them from 

their I'S and allowing a flow of 'inclusivity" 

of warmness. 

As often is the case, I didn’t see it then in the moment. 

I did feel it though. It was later as I reflected 

on this situation that the realization occurred 

by being silent within, maybe smiling or nodding, 

not looking or seeming like I’m "intriguing or different". 

I am allowing and giving space for that person to 

"ADJUST" THEMSELVES.

~C

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