John Clarke
Working with Vanity is a long term project
and requires all of our patience
with ourselves and acceptance.
Acceptance means acceptance,
that we have this thing we would rather not have,
but that we will not judge ourselves for it,
just see it and note it.
But keep at the back of your mind that with inner work
and presence over time,
you will most certainly change and Vanity will lessen.
A good sign of it becoming less strong
is when we start to really value others
and to actually LISTEN to what they have to say.
That is not half listen
and identify with our much “better” I.
That comes usually after fairly long work
at seeing ourselves,
seeing we are more or less the same as everyone else,
not better or worse,
in fact that we are brothers and sisters on the path.
~John Clarke
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